AA has a spiritual foundation, and many people in recovery speak about God, prayer, surrender, and reliance on a Higher Power. At Peapack Reformed Church, we believe deeply in the mercy of God and in the possibility of restoration, but you do not need to have church experience, theological certainty, or even comfort with spiritual language before you walk in. Many people come to AA with complicated feelings about faith, God, church, or themselves. Recovery does not have to begin before these beliefs feel settled.

No. If you are not ready to speak, you may simply listen. If you do introduce yourself, you may use only your first name.

For open meetings, yes, a friend, family member, or support person can attend as an observer. For closed meetings, attendance is limited to only those who are AA members and people who have a desire to stop drinking. The meetings at Peapack Reformed Church are closed meetings.

You do not need to reach a certain level of crisis before attending a meeting. If alcohol is causing concern in your life, or if you are wondering whether you need help, you are allowed to attend.

You are always still welcome. Many people come to AA after previous attempts to stop drinking, and the meeting is not a place where you need to pretend that recovery has been simple or perfect.

AA is grounded in anonymity, and the church’s role is to provide meeting space. If you call the church office with a practical question, you will be treated respectfully and without judgment.

Al-Anon is also available at Peapack Reformed Church for family members, friends, and loved ones affected by someone else’s drinking. More information about Al-Anon is available here.

You do not need to pay to attend an AA meeting. Some meetings and groups may pass around a collection basket, but giving is voluntary.